Dealing a Tantrum Child

is it part of growing process or is it occurs due to some circumtances? when it comes for me to deal with a tantrum child, im kind of lost. what should i do if my hubby not around? how am i going to confront her by myself? like wat happen these few days. she cry for no reason. begging for so much attention eventhough i cuddle her all the time till i have no time to do the spring cleaning & worse, i cant even move at all. i checked her body tempreture every hour, scared if she had fever or somthing, but everything seems ok. by the time her babah wants to put her on bed, she will throw her small pillow, even her milk bottle. this situation kind of worrying me. i cant raise my voice all the time scared that it will somehow affect her psychology but i cant leave her behaving like that all the time alfraid she will used to it. god, sometimes i wish she can grow much faster now so that i can descipline her.